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Human Factor
The
human organism is a wonderful thing, but it is far from perfect.
Believe it.
You (like everybody else) are not perfect!
Sport
comprises a group of imperfect organisms placed in a competitive
environment, each trying to outperform the other with the aim of
achieving excellence.
It must
be recognized that excellence is different to perfection. Excellence
is relative to the performance of others. A competitor who possesses
superior technical skills or achieves distinction through outstanding
performance when compared with others is regarded as excellent.
Sportspersons often work under the mistaken belief that excellence
means perfection. It is difficult to quantify what a perfect game of
golf might be. After all, when there are never two shots the same how
do you determine a perfect game? For this reason many players find
themselves frustrated and annoyed if things don’t work out
‘perfectly’, when their goal should be actually be excellence.
Excellence on the golf course should be gauged in terms of how well
your playing ability (technical, physical and mental) measures up to
each challenge encountered, and whether the sum of your skills exceeds
the capability of other competitors – it is a multi-dimensional thing
and must take into account the conditions.
If you
accept the Human Factor (and the impossibility of perfection)
you can re-align how you perceive the challenge. Because you are
playing a game that is designed to exploit your weaknesses, you can
derive increased pleasure as you overcome each challenge. This
positive realisation helps reduce stress by keeping you in the real
world whilst maximising the reward. (also see
Goal Setting)
Remember, you are
only human. Whilst machine-like precision might be your driving
ambition, always reserve the right to fail. Competitive failure does
not make you a lesser person, it simply indicates a requirement to
work harder on improving your skills.
Accepting the fact you possess human
weaknesses will greatly improve your self-esteem - oddly enough.
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